paris (im)perfect

Hot on the heels of Halloween is another holiday American expats have to improvise over here. I like this celebrating of traditions in new ways.

I’ll be heading to a Thanksgiving “apero” on Friday (hey, it’s a cultural melange!), but in the meantime, here is an abbreviated gratitude list. I’ve been incorporating this practice of recognizing life’s bounty into my regular routine anyway; the holiday is just a more formalized chance to say thanks!

I’m thankful that my close friend came through his heart procedure successfully today. I’m thankful for my own open heart.

I’m thankful I can sit with uncertainty, though it can feel scary and hard.

“I’ve been absolutely terrified every moment of my life and I’ve never let it keep me from doing a single thing I wanted to do,” artist Georgia O’Keeffe once said.

I’m thankful for inspiring quotes. Inspring stories. Inspiring people and lives.


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There are lots of people who are going through tough times right now.  Personal issues, environmental events,economic crises, and cultural clashes exist around the world.  And it feels like the chaos is getting closer to home.  I swear I have heard more ambulances and sirens in my small neighbourhood in the past three weeks than in all the years I have lived here.

Whatever form of chaos you are living in right now, there is only one sure thing about it and that is that it will change.  You can either choose to acknowledge and flow with the changes, or you can set up your expectations and try to govern the ungovernable. But I’ll tell you now…resistance is futile.

Change is a funny thing because we all fear it, whether we need it or not.   We resist change around and within ourselves.  Even if we live in total…

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The Musings of a Digital Vagabond

As a sexually active disabled american male, I truly think that the best way to progress as a society is to have open conversations about things like this, dispelling very common and terribly inaccurate myths.  It is my sincere hope that through things like this we can build a stronger, more inclusive mythos that propels us into a better future.  For those of you who have become loyal followers, this is the topic of the documentary I wish to make.  This particular article, I found on the huffington post here. The article primarily focuses on the issue of sex as it pertains to the acquisition of a disability later in life, but many of the authors points still apply to those like me, who’ve had a disability since birth. enjoy!

Disabled people are people, and people are people … virtually nobody is too disabled to derive some satisfaction and…

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Arizona Highways

This week, we asked you to choose our “Friday Fotos” theme and the people’s choice was (drumroll, please)…………… mountain views.

A HUGE thanks to everyone who contributed a photo… because there were so many spectacular images to choose from, we couldn’t post them all… Not to fret: when you’re done scrolling through the photographs below, you can scope out everyone’s pics on our Facebook page.


P.S. Don’t forget to share this week’s gallery with your favorite people via social media… they will love you for it.

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